When did I lose track of time? It had to be between the time I found out I was pregnant with and delivered my second child. I can’t remember when, exactly, but I know that I lost track of it! How do I know that I lost track? I do remember once upon a time when arriving early or on time was second nature for me. Now, I am lucky if I can remember when to get my children to bed.

Out of the blue, I thought to myself, “When did I lose time?” I can never seem to arrive on time anywhere, anymore. It was as if that component of my life simply vanished. Just driving to work the other day the question popped into my head. Why? I was on schedule to being late for work! The honest truth to when I can think of on time vanishing for me - after having my second child.

A long time ago - B.C. - Before Child, I was always early to events, work, deadlines, etc. It was part of me. I never needed a schedule because my schedule was internal. I met deadlines, I was always early for functions, and friends would turn to me for, “What time do we need to be there?” There was never a doubt.

Not so long ago - A.C. - After Child, I was just on time. Early was not a possibility. I had baby to take care of. Feedings, changing diapers and then eventually that turned into helping with homework, driving to sports. On time was a goal that I had to stick with to keep some sanity.

More recent then not so long ago, I had my second child. I became really busy. I would lose track of things - not my kids! I would forget special occasions, unless I wrote them down, and being early or on time - forget it! Those two words flew out the window, right along with sanity, organization, and a schedule!

I noticed after having my second child several things went down the drain. It wasn’t just always being late. I couldn’t keep up with laundry, dishes, and just the little simple pick ups. Once upon a time, I had a spotless house. Now? Oh wow, I can’t keep up with vacuuming or cleaning bathrooms.

After having your children did you notice a change in various parts of life? Being on time? Organization? Cleaning? Share it with Parenting Diva!

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