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When Your Toddler Becomes A Child

Posted by Guest Blogger on January 17th, 2008

Guest Post By Sharon Hurley Hall

Sometimes the moment can pass you by. In fact, you can be so busy with the day to day business of child rearing that you don’t even notice when your toddler grows up. But one day, you’ll look at your child and it will hit you. All of a sudden you will realize that:

  • You haven’t changed a nappy for three years
  • You no longer have to cut your child’s food into tiny pieces; medium sized will do
  • Your child can eat off the family china without you having to worry about breakages
  • Your friends say how polite and well behaved your child is (even if at home, it’s a different story)
  • Your child will try new foods and will eat something she doesn’t like instead of spitting it out.
  • Your child is now two thirds of your height and gaining on you fast
  • Your child has gone into adult shoe sizes, even if it’s only a 1
  • You can have a conversation that doesn’t involve threats, bribes or tantrums
  • Your child has become a person whom you like to hang out with

It’s a great moment when you realize this, because it vindicates your parenting skills. It makes all of the time you spent repeating rules worth it.

Don’t kid yourself, the battle isn’t over. In fact, it’s only just begun, but at least you’ve successfully navigated the first stage. What signs told you that your toddler was growing up?

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Sharon Hurley Hall is a born again blogger who has been writing for more than 20 years. She is a freelance writer and ghostwriter who specializes in ebooks, SEO articles and blog posts. Sharon runs the freelance mentoring blog, Get Paid To Write Online. She has a wonderful five year old daughter who keeps her on her toes.

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love the post SHH! fun looking back. I remember the first trip I took w/ the kids w/o my husband….no naptime or diaper bag and eating a little off schedule…that was fun!

Thanks, Silken. It’s amazing to realise how far we’ve come since the early days, and I’m sure there’ll be more fun in the future - and some challenges, too, of course.

Sharon, awww you are making me a little sad… my youngest is now 4! No more babies, although I still baby him quite a bit. PS I follow you on twitter!

Too true! Mine is two and a hlaf and more and more each day I see my baby leaving me!!

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